Time to Make A Change, Part 2

This week, we present an inspiring story written by the mother of one of our pitchers in response to last week’s Weekly Blog on our website. Leslie Lenderman addressed it to me, but I share it with you—-
When Haley came to you it was 4 days before her summer club tournaments started. She had healed from her injury, gotten strong through PT, but had to change.
Before the trip down from Michigan we all signed a “contract” I had drafted. It was cute, but had some serious points in it. Boy did we need to go back to that agreement when frustration hit! I also called her coach and apologized in advance about not knowing how Haley would throw for awhile, but that I was sure he would do the same for his child if it meant keeping her safe.

The first tournament after her original lessons with you was excruciating. Haley would throw an inning or 2 and then we would pull her as soon as she would revert to old mechanics. The next game the same thing, then again. She hated it. We hated doing it. But it worked. And now she is enjoying some of the fruit of her labor as she graduates tonight and moves on to college ball!

Tough love isn’t easy, just necessary. I think many parents need to consider more often what children will get out of playing any sport. What do we want them to learn? I have a ridiculously long list, but this particular example at hand is patience, priorities, excellence, and most of all delayed gratification. The best things in life most often come with a price tag.

Haley now says that her injury was the best thing that ever happened to her (so far:). There’s always something waiting for us on the other side if we fight through. I am so grateful that my daughter was able to get that lesson! Don’t miss the opportunities to teach your daughter and take advantage of the moments that bring maturity. Sitting the bench brought her humility and an appreciation for the game she never had.

Thank you (for the 27th time) for your commitment to our girls, your passion for the game, and your wisdom to produce results. We love you!

***Note: If you are a former college pitcher who would like to impact the lives of kids, contact us about our Instructor Certification program.